We all know that strippers usually go out of their way to make a customer feel special. The more a stripper gets their customers engaged, the more the tend to spend. One of the many ways that a stripper does that is by telling you how much they like you. There are times when a stripper genuinely does like but how do you tell one motive from the other. Take a look at this tips to determine if a stripper really likes you so you do not misread the message between the stripper lines.
1. She reveals her real name
Strippers like to keep personal and work private and are not big on mixing the two worlds. This is one of the main reasons that strippers have stage names to begin with. If she gives you her real name than it is a good indicator that she likes you. If she tells you her real name, do not under any circumstances say it to any customers or out loud in the club.
2. She stops asking for dances and drinks
This is a great first sign that the stripper might actually like you. Dances and drinks are the way that a stripper makes money when she is off stage. If she has stopped broaching that subject with you and is still talking to you, it means she is enjoying your company. She is taking time she could be using to work the room and find potential clients and spending it with you for free. This same theory also applies if she meets you after the strip club, even if it is just in the parking lot to chat.
3. She hints at seeing you outside the club
Strippers usually like to keep their work and private careers very separate. This hint needs to be present with other hints to be taken seriously. A lot of strippers hint at the fact that something could happen outside the club to simply add to the fantasy. Do keep in mind if the stripper starts placing your outside the club contact with them at high dollar restaurants or other expensive places, it is a warning sign. This could be just another way for them to try to make money or get expensive treats. On the flip side, it could be the stripper testing your thoughts on possible genuine contact outside the walls of the strip club. As you can see, this can have many different meanings depending on the conversation and context.
4. She is affectionate towards you
If she is kissing you or any other affection other than sex and it is not paid for in someway or another, she genuinely likes your company. Kissing is a very intimate action and something that a lot of girls will not even get paid to do. This is a strong indicator that she genuinely likes you..
5. She gives you her cell number
Giving you a cell number is giving you the ability to contact her on your terms. That is a small step into getting the strippers personal life. It can also be a test to see if you will overstep the boundary of becoming borderline stalker. Keep calls to a minimum at first so you do not become overpowering.
6. She remembers details
You can sit down and talk with a stripper until your blue in the face but odds are that she will not remember any of what was said in ten minutes. If your potential love interest actually remembers the conversations you have had, personal details about you, your name, etc. it is a great sign.
7. She texts or calls you
If she contacts you on the phone and your conversations are not about business or your next strip club visit, that is a good sign that she likes you. If her calls typically revolve around your when you are coming in next, she is simply asking when you are going to come pay her again. If the stripper likes you than she will want to see you outside of the strip club. Her making the effort to contact you is a good thing for sure.
8. She adds you as a friend on Myspace or Facebook
Letting you see her profile is actually a very personal thing. You can see her thoughts, friends, personal pictures and more. This is a step towards allowing you to see her as a person instead of just a stripper. This could be a trial run before taking the next step listed below
9. Introduces you to friends
This is a pretty big step in mixing the business and personal worlds together. Involving her friends is a big step and it should be a pretty good indicator of her intentions. Do be careful of what information you give out to her friends about her job. Her friends may not be aware that she is working as a stripper or they may not know the type of club. Do not be offended if she does not want her friends to know that you met at the strip club.
These hints that a stripper really likes you can mean nothing or everything. It is important to let the stripper take the reins so that you can decipher her true intentions. These hints should come over a period of time and not over one night. Take it slow and let things take their course before testing the waters to see if she does like you as more than an income source. It is easy to get so sure of what you are seeing because you want it to happen but then find out you were misreading the signs. The next step would be her wanting to meet your family and friends. Once that happens, congratulations you are now dating!
